FAFSA asking for divorced parent who doesn't contribute - what income do I report?
Help! I'm stuck on the parent contributor section of the FAFSA. My parents divorced when I was 12 and my dad hasn't contributed a penny to my education. I live with my mom full-time, but the FAFSA is asking for my dad's income too because they share legal custody on paper (even though he's never around). My mom makes about $48,000/year, but my dad probably makes over $90,000. Will including his income destroy my financial aid chances? My mom can't afford to help me much with college. Can I somehow just report my mom's income since she's the only one ACTUALLY supporting me? Has anyone successfully gotten around this?
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Jordan Walker
In the same boat. My parents are divorced & FAFSA screwed me over by counting my dad's income even tho he hasnt paid a dime for anything since i was 14. got way less aid than i shouldve bcuz of this stupid rule. good luck.
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Emily Sanjay
•Ugh, that's what I'm afraid of! Did you try appealing or anything? Did your college financial aid office help at all?
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Natalie Adams
For FAFSA purposes, you need to report the income of the parent you lived with most during the past 12 months. If you lived with your mom more than 50% of the time, then you only report her income - not your dad's. The legal custody arrangement doesn't matter for FAFSA, it's about physical custody and where you actually lived. If you split time exactly 50/50, then you report the parent who provided more financial support. Check the dependency worksheet on studentaid.gov for confirmation.
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Elijah O'Reilly
•this is NOT true anymore with the new FAFSA!!! the rules changed for 2024-2025. now its about who claims you as a dependent on taxes, not who you live with. please don't spread misinfo!!!
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Amara Torres
This situation is EXACTLY why I hate the FAFSA system. They assume all these picture-perfect families where divorced parents both help their kids. My stepdaughter went through this last year and got screwed out of $8000 in grants because her deadbeat dad's income was counted even though he hasn't given us a DIME in 8 years. The whole system is designed to PUNISH children of divorce! We ended up having to take out Parent PLUS loans to cover what grants should have paid for. The financial aid office just shrugged and said "sorry, those are the federal rules." INFURIATING!!!
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Emily Sanjay
•That's heartbreaking... I was counting on getting good financial aid. My mom can barely keep up with rent, let alone help with college. This whole system feels so unfair.
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Olivia Van-Cleve
My cousin dealt with this last year. Call your school's financial aid office and ask about a "special circumstances appeal" or "professional judgment request" - thats what its officially called. You'll need documentation proving your dad doesnt contribute financially. They might adjust your SAI score if you can prove it.
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Emily Sanjay
•Thank you! What kind of documentation would work? We don't have anything in writing that says he doesn't contribute... would the divorce decree help even though it's from years ago?
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Olivia Van-Cleve
•The divorce decree helps! Also any court records about child support (even if it shows he wasn't paying), tax returns showing your mom claiming you, school records listing only your mom as contact, bills showing she pays everything. Basically anything proving she's your only financial support.
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Mason Kaczka
I've been trying to reach someone at the Federal Student Aid office for weeks about a similar issue with my FAFSA and kept getting disconnected. Finally used a service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) that got me through to an actual FSA agent in about 20 minutes. They have a video demo at https://youtu.be/TbC8dZQWYNQ showing how it works. The agent I talked to confirmed that I could file a special circumstances form with my school to explain why my non-custodial parent's information shouldn't be included. Saved me weeks of frustration trying to get answers.
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Emily Sanjay
•I'll check that out! I've been calling the Federal Student Aid number too and it's always busy or disconnects me. Thanks for the tip!
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Jordan Walker
•does that service cost money? seems sketchy to have to pay to talk to a govt agency tbh
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Sophia Russo
Financial aid counselor here. For 2025-2026 FAFSA applications, there's a specific process for your situation under the new SAI calculation methods. You need to: 1. Complete the FAFSA with your custodial parent (mom)'s information only 2. After submission, immediately contact your college's financial aid office to file a "Special Circumstances Form" explaining the non-custodial parent situation 3. Provide documentation showing your mom provides more than 50% of your support (her tax returns, bills she pays, health insurance coverage, etc.) 4. Ask specifically for a "Dependency Override" or "Professional Judgment Review" Each school handles these differently, but most have a standardized process. The key is documenting that your non-custodial parent provides no financial support. Be persistent and follow up regularly - these reviews often take 3-4 weeks to process.
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Emily Sanjay
•This is incredibly helpful, thank you! One question - for the Special Circumstances Form, do I need to get that from each college I'm applying to, or is there a standard federal form I can use?
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Sophia Russo
•You'll need to get the form from each individual college - there's no standard federal form. Each school has their own version and process, though they all collect similar information. Start by checking each school's financial aid website for terms like "special circumstances," "professional judgment," or "dependency override." If you can't find it online, email their financial aid office directly asking for their specific form and process.
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Evelyn Xu
Am I the only one who thinks its weird the FAFSA cares about parents income at all? Like I'm 19 and my parents aren't paying for college but their income still counts against me?? How does that make any sense? My friend's parents make good money but refuse to help her with college and she got barely any aid. The whole system is broken.
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Amara Torres
•EXACTLY!!! The system ASSUMES parents will contribute based on some formula they invented, but they never check if parents ACTUALLY contribute! My stepdaughter's biological father makes $120K but hasn't spoken to her in YEARS, let alone given her money for college. Yet the FAFSA counted his income and she got almost NO AID. The system PUNISHES students with complicated family situations!
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Elijah O'Reilly
•you can become an independent student but its super hard. basically gotta be 24, married, military, or have your own kids. i tried everything to get classified as independent and couldn't do it even tho i support myself 100%
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Natalie Adams
Quick update on the divorce/FAFSA rules for 2025-2026: With the new simplified FAFSA, they primarily want information from the parent who provided more financial support in the last 12 months, regardless of custody arrangement. If you're unsure which parent provided more support, they use the one who had you for more days during the year. Importantly, they no longer automatically include step-parent income in certain situations, which is a big change from previous years. The FAFSA guidance specifically mentions that non-custodial parents who provide no support shouldn't affect your SAI calculation.
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Emily Sanjay
•That's really encouraging! So technically I should only need to include my mom's information since she provides 100% of my support. Do you know if I need to provide proof upfront, or just if they ask for verification later?
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Natalie Adams
•You'll complete the FAFSA initially with just your mom's information. If selected for verification (about 30% of applications get selected), you'll need to provide documentation then. I'd start gathering evidence now though - bank statements showing regular expenses from your mom, her tax returns showing she claims you as dependent, school records listing her as your contact, etc. Having this ready will make the verification process much smoother if it happens.
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Olivia Van-Cleve
when i was filling out my fafsa a couple weeks ago the instruction said to report the parent who i lived with more during the past 12 months. so if thats your mom, just report her? the system seems pretty straight forward unless im missing something
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Sophia Russo
•The instructions can be misleading. While you initially report the parent you lived with more, the FAFSA system often follows up asking about the other parent's information, especially if legal custody is shared. The key is correctly completing the household information section, being careful about how you answer the questions about which parent provides more financial support, and potentially being prepared to file a special circumstances form if the system incorrectly calculates your SAI based on both parents' income.
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Logan Scott
I went through this exact situation two years ago! The key thing to understand is that the new FAFSA rules prioritize which parent provides MORE financial support, not just custody arrangements. Since your mom provides 100% of your support and your dad contributes nothing, you should only report your mom's income initially. However, I'd recommend being proactive - start gathering documentation NOW showing your mom's sole financial support (her tax returns claiming you as dependent, receipts for major expenses like medical/school costs, etc.) in case you need to file a special circumstances appeal later. Also, reach out to the financial aid offices at your target schools early to explain your situation - many are familiar with divorced parent issues and can walk you through their specific process. Don't let your dad's income on paper destroy your aid eligibility when he's not actually contributing!
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CosmicCommander
•This is so reassuring to hear from someone who actually went through it! I'm definitely going to start gathering all that documentation now. Quick question - when you say "receipts for major expenses," what kinds of things counted? Like would things like my school registration fees, doctor visits, car insurance count as proof my mom supports me financially? I want to make sure I'm collecting the right stuff in case I need it later.
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Fatima Al-Suwaidi
•Yes, those are exactly the kinds of receipts that help! Car insurance, medical bills, school fees, even things like clothes shopping or groceries if your mom pays for them regularly. I also included bank statements showing my mom's regular transfers to my checking account for personal expenses, proof she paid my phone bill, and documentation that she covers my health insurance through her work. The financial aid office told me they want to see a clear pattern that shows your mom is your primary source of financial support - so anything that demonstrates she's covering your basic living expenses works. Bank records are especially helpful because they create a clear paper trail of who's actually paying for what.
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