Thank you all for the great advice and encouragement! We're going to wait for all the offers to come in and then start the appeal process with her top choices. I feel much better knowing this first offer isn't necessarily what we'll have to accept. Will update when we hear from the other schools!

Just wanted to add another perspective as someone who went through this process with twins last year! Your experience is unfortunately very typical for that first offer. What really helped us was creating a spreadsheet to track not just the grant amounts, but the NET COST after all aid for each school. Some schools with higher sticker prices ended up being cheaper than "affordable" state schools after aid. Also, timing matters - we noticed schools that released decisions later in the cycle often had more competitive packages, possibly because they could see what other schools were offering. Don't be afraid to ask the financial aid office directly: "What would it take for my daughter to receive additional aid?" Sometimes they'll tell you exactly what documentation or circumstances would help your case. One last tip: if your daughter has any unique talents, achievements, or circumstances that weren't fully captured in the original application, mention those in your appeal. Schools sometimes have small pots of money for specific situations that aren't part of their standard formula. Good luck - the process is stressful but it often works out better than that first disappointing offer suggests!

UPDATE: We figured it out! It turns out my son had entered my husband's email address incorrectly (switched two letters). Once we fixed that and resent the invitation, my husband got the email within minutes. He's created his FSA ID and is completing his portion now. Thanks everyone for your help! The FAFSA process is definitely not user-friendly this year.

Great to see you got it resolved! This is such a common issue with the new FAFSA system. For anyone else reading this thread who might be dealing with similar problems, I'd also recommend having your student screenshot or write down exactly what they entered for each parent's email address before submitting. That way if there are delays, you can quickly spot any typos without having to dig back through the application. The new contributor system is definitely more complicated than the old FAFSA, but once you get through it the first time, it makes more sense. Hope your son gets his aid package soon!

One last piece of advice - if your enrollment deposit deadline is coming up and this isn't resolved, contact the admissions office (not just financial aid) and explain the situation. Many schools will grant you an extension on the deposit deadline if there's a pending financial aid issue. Make sure to request this in writing as well.

As someone who just went through this exact situation last month, I wanted to share what worked for me. My son's SAI was corrected due to a medical expense adjustment, but his school took almost 2 weeks to update it even after multiple calls. What finally worked was emailing the financial aid office instead of just calling. I sent an email with the subject line "URGENT: Request to Download Corrected ISIR - Enrollment Deadline Approaching" and included: - My son's student ID number - The FAFSA correction confirmation number - Screenshots showing the corrected SAI on studentaid.gov - Our enrollment deposit deadline date I got a response within 4 hours saying they would expedite the ISIR download, and the corrected aid package was available the next day. Sometimes having everything in writing gets faster results than phone calls. Good luck!

One final piece of advice: after you submit the FAFSA, check the Student Aid Report (SAR) that comes to your email about 3-5 days later. Review it carefully for any errors that could affect your daughter's aid eligibility. If you find mistakes, you can make corrections online. Also, don't be surprised if you're selected for verification - it's random and happens to about 30% of applicants. Just respond promptly with the requested documents if this occurs. Best of luck with the process! Remember that you're not alone in finding it overwhelming - almost every first-time parent feels this way.

As someone who just went through this process with my oldest last year, I want to echo what others have said about not panicking! The new FAFSA really is more streamlined. One thing I haven't seen mentioned yet - make sure you have your Social Security numbers handy for both you and your daughter, and if you're married, your spouse's SSN too. Also, if you have any untaxed income like child support received or tax-exempt interest, gather those numbers as well. The form will ask for current bank account balances, so I'd recommend doing the FAFSA on a day when your accounts reflect your typical balance (not right after a big deposit or payment). You've got this!

Just to follow up - I want to address the timing question. Since we're still early in the FAFSA cycle for 2025-2026 aid, making this correction now shouldn't negatively impact your aid timeline as long as you do it promptly. Schools typically don't finalize aid packages until late spring/early summer, so you have some time. But don't delay - the sooner you correct it, the sooner your accurate SAI will be calculated.

This is such a helpful thread! I'm a parent who just went through the FAFSA process for the first time and I can't believe how confusing some of these sections are. The family size question seems straightforward but there are so many edge cases - like do you count yourself if you're married filing separately, or what about dependents who are over 18 but still in high school? I ended up calling the helpline twice just to make sure I had it right. For anyone else who might be unsure, the FAFSA website has a pretty good worksheet that walks you through who to include in your household size. Better to double-check than end up in Oliver's situation!