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Why doesn't your brother just take a gap year and work full time? Save up some money. Maybe your dad will change his mind by next year. Thats what my son did when I couldn't afford to help him
That's actually not a bad idea. He could save some money and maybe build a case for being financially independent. I'll suggest it to him, thanks!
I'm a financial aid advisor and want to add one more option that hasn't been mentioned yet - your brother should look into becoming a ward of the court or having documented homelessness. I know this sounds extreme, but if your parents are truly refusing all financial support AND he's not living with them consistently, there might be grounds for a dependency override based on "lack of parental support and contact." Also, some states have their own grant programs that have different dependency requirements than federal aid. What state are you in? Programs like Cal Grant in California or TAP in New York sometimes have more flexible rules. Another strategy: if he can establish residency in a state with generous need-based aid and lower dependency requirements, that could help. But this usually requires living there for 1-2 years first. The gap year suggestion from @Jamal Edwards is actually really smart - he could work, save money, AND potentially establish more independence that strengthens his case for aid the following year.
waitng for finaid is the WORST!!! i had an sai of like +3000 and still got some aid so you'll def get something with -1500. good luck!!
Thanks for the encouragement! The waiting is definitely driving me crazy. Did you have to wait a long time for your aid package to come through?
Hey Millie! I'm in a very similar situation - single mom with kids and just got back my SAI last week too. Mine was -1800 and I was just as confused about what it meant! Reading through all these responses is really helpful. One thing I learned from my financial aid counselor is that you should also look into your state's grant programs. Some states have really generous need-based grants that stack on top of federal aid. Also, don't forget about things like childcare grants if your school offers them - that was a game changer for me when I went back to school a few years ago. You're doing great by planning ahead and asking these questions early! The whole process is overwhelming but it sounds like you're going to get some good aid with that negative SAI. Fingers crossed for both of us! 🤞
UPDATE: Thanks everyone for the helpful advice! I logged into studentaid.gov and found where I could see the tax info they pulled. It all looks accurate for 2022, but definitely doesn't reflect my current situation. I'm going to start preparing my special circumstances documentation now so I'm ready when I hear back from schools. Really appreciate all the insights - feeling much less stressed now that I understand what happened!
glad u figured it out! the whole process is so confusing and the new system is weird. good luck with your appeals!
This happened to me too and I was so confused at first! The automatic tax data import really caught me off guard. Just wanted to add that when you do your special circumstances appeals, make sure to include a letter explaining the timeline of your job change and how it impacts your ability to pay. I did this last year when my dad got laid off, and most schools were really understanding about it. Also, some schools have online portals for submitting these appeals which is way easier than mailing everything. Good luck with your applications - an SAI of 4800 should definitely help you get some decent aid packages!
Just wanted to chime in as someone who works with nursing students - your situation is actually more common than you think! Many of our most successful nursing graduates had winding paths to get there. The fact that you're maintaining a 3.4 GPA in nursing coursework while being so close to graduation is huge evidence in your favor. When you write your appeal letter, definitely emphasize that your GPA shows you've found your academic footing once you discovered nursing. Also, make sure to highlight any clinical performance evaluations or feedback from instructors that demonstrate your commitment to the profession. Schools really want to see students cross the finish line, especially in high-demand fields like nursing. You've got this!
Thank you so much for this perspective! It's really comforting to hear that winding paths to nursing are common - I've been feeling like such an outlier. You're absolutely right about emphasizing my clinical performance. I actually have really positive feedback from my clinical instructors and preceptors that I could include with my appeal. My nursing faculty have been really supportive throughout the program, so I think getting letters from them highlighting my commitment and performance would strengthen my case significantly. I'm starting to feel more confident that this appeal can work out, especially with everyone's advice here!
I just went through the SAP appeal process last semester and wanted to share what helped me succeed. First, don't panic - the "financial aid appeal hold" is actually good news because it means they're giving you time to appeal rather than just cutting off your aid immediately. For your appeal letter, focus on three key points: 1) Acknowledge that your major changes affected your completion rate, but emphasize how each step led you to discover your true passion in nursing, 2) Highlight your 3.4 GPA as concrete evidence that you're academically successful now that you've found your path, and 3) Stress that you're literally one semester from graduation - schools rarely want to see students fail this close to the finish line. Make sure to get documentation from your nursing program confirming your good standing and expected graduation date. The appeals committee wants to see that you understand what went wrong and have a solid plan moving forward. With your strong GPA and being so close to graduation, you have an excellent chance of getting approved!
Chloe Harris
Update: I checked our FAFSA submission and all the numbers were entered correctly. I also called three of the colleges where my daughter applied and they were actually really understanding! Two of them sent me their Special Circumstances forms specifically for reporting one-time financial events, and the third one asked me to wait until we receive the aid package and then appeal if needed. Thanks everyone for the advice and reassurance. I feel much better knowing this isn't as unusual as I thought!
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NebulaNomad
•That's great news! Colleges deal with these situations frequently, and most have established processes for addressing them. Be sure to submit everything by their deadlines and follow up if you don't hear back. Wishing your daughter the best with her college decisions!
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Keith Davidson
As someone who just went through this process with my son, I can confirm that what you're experiencing is actually pretty normal with the new FAFSA system! The key thing to remember is that colleges use both numbers - they see your Pell eligibility (which shows your income situation) AND your SAI (which reflects the temporary asset bump from the inheritance). Most schools I dealt with were very understanding about one-time events like inheritances, especially when families are transparent about what the money is being used for. Since you mentioned it's for medical bills and home repairs, that's exactly the kind of situation financial aid offices are equipped to handle. One tip: when you fill out those Special Circumstances forms, be specific about dollar amounts being allocated to medical expenses and repairs. Documentation really helps, but don't overwhelm them with paperwork upfront - just mention you have it available if needed. The fact that you still qualify for Pell actually works in your favor because it signals to schools that your family's day-to-day financial reality is different from what that big SAI number suggests. Good luck with the process!
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