What state are you in? Some states have special programs for students with uncooperative parents. My roommate got a special grant through our state aid commission when her dad refused to provide info for FAFSA.

I went through something similar last year! My dad was super paranoid about "government overreach" and refused to cooperate with verification at first. What finally worked was having my mom show him the official FSA website explaining that verification is completely normal and required by law - not some special targeting. She also pointed out that he'd already given the IRS all this same information when he filed taxes, so the school was just confirming what the government already had. Maybe try approaching it from the angle that this is standard procedure that happens to thousands of students, not some conspiracy against your family? Also, emphasize that without this, you'll lose ALL financial aid - not just some of it. Sometimes parents don't realize how much money is actually at stake. Good luck!

Thank you everyone for the helpful responses! I'm going to log into studentaid.gov today to make sure my FSA ID is still working properly, and then make sure I'm ready when my daughter sends the invitation. Fingers crossed the system works smoothly this time!

Just wanted to add one more tip that helped us - make sure you have all your tax documents and bank statements ready BEFORE you start the parent section. The new FAFSA system has shorter timeout periods, so if you have to go hunting for documents while you're logged in, you might get kicked out and have to start over. Also, if you're divorced or separated, double-check which parent should be completing the form - it's the parent who provides more than 50% of the student's support, not necessarily the custodial parent. This caught a lot of families off guard last year!

Thank you all for the helpful responses! I'm going to follow the financial aid office's instructions and wait for the official package before appealing. In the meantime, I'll make sure all our documentation is perfectly organized and ready to go. I just get so anxious about these things because we really need the additional aid - the estimated package would leave us with over $14,000 per year we simply can't afford. Fingers crossed the official package looks better, but at least now I know exactly what to do if it doesn't.

Just wanted to add - while you're waiting for the official package, it might be worth reaching out to other schools your son applied to and seeing if their aid packages are more generous. Sometimes having a competing offer from a peer institution can strengthen your appeal case. Also, don't forget to document any changes in your family's financial situation that happened after you filed the FAFSA - if your husband's income reduction happened recently, make sure you have pay stubs or a letter from his employer showing the exact reduction and when it took effect. The more concrete documentation you have, the stronger your appeal will be.

I can confirm this is accurate information. The confusion stems from how the FAFSA form is designed versus the actual legal requirements. While the form collects information for both parents in a married-filing-jointly situation, the Department of Education only requires one parent's signature to process the application successfully. The key thing that trips people up is the difference between providing information and providing authorization (signature). Both parents' financial data must be provided, but only one parent needs to authorize that information with their FSA ID signature when they file jointly. This is especially important given all the FAFSA delays this year - focusing on getting one parent's signature right rather than coordinating two can save valuable time.

does anyone know if theres a way to check if ur fafsa was actually submitted right?? i thought mine went thru but my SAI never came and now im worried

I'm just starting this process with my ex for our son's college applications and reading through all these responses has been incredibly helpful! One question I haven't seen addressed - if we use the Other Parent Account feature, do we both need to create our accounts at the same time, or can one parent start the process and the other join later? I'm worried about timing issues since my ex travels a lot for work and might not be available right when I want to get started. Also, has anyone dealt with situations where one parent lives in a different state? I'm wondering if that adds any complications to the CSS Profile process.

Just went through this exact situation last year with my daughter's applications! The Other Parent Account feature definitely works for keeping financial info separate, but here's what I wish someone had told me upfront: make sure you BOTH understand that you're essentially creating two completely separate CSS Profile applications that the colleges have to manually link together. The biggest issue we ran into was that some schools' financial aid offices weren't immediately aware that we had used separate accounts, so they kept sending "incomplete application" notices to my daughter. What saved us was being proactive - I called each school's financial aid office about a week after we both submitted and specifically told them "Both parents have submitted separate CSS Profiles using the Other Parent Account feature, please confirm you have both submissions linked to [daughter's name] application." Most schools said "Oh yes, we see both now, thanks for letting us know!" One school actually hadn't linked them properly and was able to fix it right away because of my call. Would definitely recommend this proactive approach rather than waiting for problems to surface later when deadlines are looming. Also, the fees do add up quickly when you're both paying for multiple schools, but the peace of mind of keeping finances separate was worth it for us. Good luck!