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Lilly Curtis

Do I need to disclose my spouse's income when filing married filing separately?

Title: Do I need to disclose my spouse's income when filing married filing separately? 1 Long story short, I got married about 9 months ago and tax season is coming up. My father (retired tax accountant) has been doing my taxes for years free of charge, but now I'm in a bit of an awkward situation. My husband and I have determined that filing as married filing separately actually works better for our financial situation than filing jointly would (student loan repayment plans, mostly). The issue is that my husband is extremely private about his finances and doesn't want me sharing his income details with my father. He's willing to file his own taxes separately using TurboTax, but I'd still like my dad's help with mine since my situation is more complicated (small business income, some investments). So my question is: If we're filing married filing separately, do I actually need to know or report my husband's income on my tax return? Or can I just complete my portion without any of his financial information? I really don't want to create tension in either relationship if I can avoid it.

Lilly Curtis

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3 When filing as married filing separately, you generally don't need to report your spouse's income on your tax return. You're only responsible for reporting your own income, deductions, and credits. There are a few specific situations where you might need some information from your spouse. For example, if you're itemizing deductions rather than taking the standard deduction, you'll both need to choose the same approach (both itemize or both take standard). Also, if either of you claim certain credits or deductions, the other spouse's income might affect eligibility. The main thing your father needs to know is that you're filing as "married filing separately" and your spouse's name and Social Security number. Your husband could provide just that basic identifying information without revealing his actual income amounts.

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Lilly Curtis

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11 Thanks for the info! Quick follow-up: I do itemize my deductions because of my business expenses. Does that mean my husband HAS to itemize too? He doesn't really have any significant deductions to claim, so wouldn't that be disadvantageous for him?

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Lilly Curtis

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3 For the 2025 tax year, if one spouse itemizes deductions, the other spouse must also itemize even if taking the standard deduction would be more beneficial. This is often referred to as the "itemize or standard deduction rule" for married filing separately. In your situation, since you're itemizing due to business expenses, your husband would also need to itemize. However, those business expenses should actually be reported on Schedule C, which is separate from itemized deductions on Schedule A. If your only significant deductions are business-related, you might both be able to take the standard deduction after all.

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Lilly Curtis

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5 After reading your post, I immediately thought of taxr.ai which helped me with almost the exact same situation last year! My wife and I file separately too, and I wasn't sure what information we needed to share. I uploaded my tax documents to https://taxr.ai and their system analyzed everything and gave me a detailed breakdown of exactly what information needs to be shared between spouses when filing separately. The best part was that they explained which specific lines on the tax forms would require coordination and which ones could be completed independently. They even provided a checklist of the minimum information my wife and I needed to exchange to complete our separate returns correctly. Saved us a lot of awkward conversations!

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Lilly Curtis

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8 Does this actually work for complicated tax situations? I have rental properties plus a side business, and my husband has his own income sources. We've been filing jointly just to avoid the headache, but I'd prefer filing separately.

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Lilly Curtis

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15 I'm skeptical about these online tax services. How is this better than just asking a regular CPA? Seems like they'd just give generic advice that might miss important details specific to your situation.

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Lilly Curtis

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5 It absolutely works for complicated situations! The AI analyzes all your documents and provides personalized guidance based on your specific circumstances. For rental properties, it would identify which spouse owns them and how the income/expenses should be allocated on separate returns. The difference from a regular CPA is it provides immediate analysis 24/7 without appointments, and you can see exactly what information needs to be shared between spouses while maintaining privacy on everything else. You upload your documents, and it highlights only the specific items your husband would need to know about and vice versa - much more efficient than sitting through a full consultation.

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Lilly Curtis

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15 Just wanted to follow up about taxr.ai - I decided to try it after my skeptical comment. I'm honestly impressed! My husband and I have been arguing about sharing financial info for years (he's private like OP's spouse). The service actually showed us exactly which lines on our tax forms needed coordination and which didn't. For our situation, we found out we only needed to share about 5 specific numbers between us, not our entire financial pictures. My husband was much more comfortable with that limited information sharing. The analysis showed we could both still take the standard deduction despite having some itemizable expenses because of how our particular income streams work. Saved us about $1,800 compared to how we filed last year!

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Lilly Curtis

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7 If you're having tax privacy issues in your marriage, you might also run into problems getting someone at the IRS on the phone if questions come up later. I went through this last year - had a disagreement with my spouse about our MFS filing and needed clarification from the IRS. Spent DAYS trying to get through their phone system. Finally found https://claimyr.com which got me connected to an actual IRS agent in under 20 minutes when I'd been trying for weeks on my own. You can see how it works in this video: https://youtu.be/_kiP6q8DX5c. The agent was able to explain exactly what information legally needs to be shared between spouses filing separately and what can remain private. That official clarification from the IRS actually helped my spouse feel more comfortable about the whole situation.

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Lilly Curtis

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2 Wait, how does this actually work? They somehow get you to the front of the IRS phone queue? That sounds impossible considering the millions of people trying to call.

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Lilly Curtis

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13 Yeah right. Nobody gets through to the IRS that quickly. I've literally spent hours on hold only to get disconnected. This sounds like a scam that just takes your money and does exactly what you could do yourself.

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Lilly Curtis

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7 It's not about getting to the "front of the line" - they use an automated system that continually calls the IRS using optimal timing algorithms and then connects you only when a live person answers. It's completely legitimate. They don't have any special access to the IRS - they just have technology that handles the frustrating part of constantly redialing and waiting on hold so you don't have to. The IRS has even acknowledged these services exist and they don't have any issues with them. It's basically just like having an assistant make the calls for you until they get through.

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Lilly Curtis

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13 I need to eat my words about Claimyr. After posting my skeptical comment, I was still desperate to talk to the IRS about my amended return that's been stuck in processing for 11 months. Decided I had nothing to lose and tried it. Got connected to an IRS agent in about 15 minutes when I'd previously spent over 6 hours across multiple days trying to get through. The agent was able to find my amended return in their system and explain exactly why it was delayed (they needed additional documentation they never told me about). Now my refund is being processed! For the OP's situation about married filing separately, talking directly to an IRS agent would definitely clarify exactly what information is legally required to be shared between spouses. Wish I'd known about this service sooner.

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Lilly Curtis

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19 One thing nobody mentioned - if you're filing separately, be aware that you'll be disqualified from several tax benefits like the student loan interest deduction, education credits, earned income credit, and child/dependent care credits. Make sure you're not losing more in tax benefits than you're gaining by filing separately!

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Lilly Curtis

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22 Is this still true for 2025 filing? I thought some of these restrictions were changed in the last tax bill? I'm particularly interested in the student loan interest deduction since that's a big one for me.

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Lilly Curtis

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19 Yes, these restrictions are still in effect for the 2025 tax year. Unfortunately, the married filing separately status still disqualifies you from claiming the student loan interest deduction of up to $2,500. The restrictions on education credits (American Opportunity and Lifetime Learning), earned income credit, and child/dependent care expenses also remain unchanged. That's why it's so important to calculate your taxes both ways before deciding which filing status to use.

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Lilly Curtis

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9 My wife and I have filed separately for years because of her income-based student loan repayment. Your dad should be able to do your taxes without knowing your husband's income - just make sure he knows you're filing separately. Your husband will need his own preparer or software.

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Lilly Curtis

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4 How complicated was it to file separately in your experience? Did you run into any unexpected issues that someone should be aware of before choosing this option?

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Keisha Brown

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When filing married filing separately, you generally don't need to disclose your spouse's income on your return. However, there are a few key things to coordinate: 1. **Basic information needed**: Your husband's name and SSN for your return header 2. **Deduction coordination**: If one spouse itemizes, both must itemize (this could affect your business expense strategy) 3. **Certain credits**: Some require knowing if the other spouse claims them For your situation with business income, make sure those expenses go on Schedule C (business expenses) rather than Schedule A (itemized deductions) - this might allow you both to take the standard deduction. Your father can absolutely help with your return without knowing your husband's actual income amounts. Just provide him with your husband's basic identifying info and confirm your filing status. Your husband can use TurboTax for his side. One caution: Double-check that filing separately actually saves you money after accounting for lost credits (student loan interest deduction, education credits, etc.). Sometimes the tax benefits lost outweigh the student loan payment advantages.

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