Can I claim my live-in girlfriend as a dependent if her W-2 is close to the threshold?
I've been supporting my girlfriend who lived with me all year in 2024. She worked part-time but didn't make much money. I'm trying to figure out if I can claim her as a dependent when I file my taxes this year. I checked out the Dependents section in IRS publication 501 but I'm confused about how to calculate her gross income. The IRS says "Gross income is all income in the form of money, property, and services that isn't exempt from tax." When I look at her W-2, should I be using Box 1 (wages) or Box 5 (Medicare wages)? If I use Box 5 and add in the interest and dividends from her 1099s, she made about $4,850 total. But if I just use Box 1, she's under $4,700 which would qualify for the dependent status. Does anyone know which box I'm supposed to use to determine if she qualifies as my dependent? This makes a big difference for my return!
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Connor Richards
For determining if someone qualifies as your dependent based on the gross income test, you should use Box 1 of the W-2 plus any other taxable income like interest and dividends reported on 1099 forms. Box 1 shows taxable wages after certain pre-tax deductions (like retirement contributions and health insurance) have been taken out, which is why it's lower than Box 5. Box 5 includes some non-taxable benefits and Medicare wages, which isn't the correct reference for the gross income test. If your girlfriend's Box 1 plus any taxable interest and dividends is under $4,700 for 2024, and she meets the other tests (you provided more than half her support, she lived with you all year, etc.), then you should be able to claim her as a qualifying relative dependent.
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Zoe Wang
•Thanks for explaining the difference! So just to be 100% sure - I add her Box 1 amount ($4,320) plus her interest and dividend income from 1099s (about $330), which puts her at $4,650 total. Since that's under $4,700, I should be good to claim her as long as she meets all the other tests, right? Also, does she need to file her own return if I claim her as a dependent?
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Connor Richards
•Yes, if her total income from Box 1 plus interest and dividends is $4,650, that's under the $4,700 threshold, so you're good on the gross income test as long as all other tests are met (providing over half her support, etc.). Your girlfriend will still need to file her own tax return if she meets the filing requirements, even if you claim her as a dependent. If her income is only from W-2 wages and minimal interest/dividends, she'll likely need to file since her income is over $4,000. She'll just need to check the box on her return indicating that someone else can claim her as a dependent.
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Grace Durand
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Steven Adams
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Alice Fleming
•I'm skeptical about these tax tools. How does it know whether you're providing more than half of someone's support? Seems like it would just be guessing unless you track every penny spent.
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Grace Durand
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Samantha Howard
Just a heads up - make sure your girlfriend doesn't claim herself as a dependent on her own return! My brother and his girlfriend had this issue last year. He claimed her as a dependent, but she also checked the box saying no one could claim her on her return. They both got letters from the IRS and had to file amended returns. She needs to check the box on her 1040 that says "Someone can claim you as a dependent." Otherwise, the IRS computer system flags it as a conflict.
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Zoe Wang
•Oh that's a good point! I'll make sure we coordinate on that. Does she still get to take the standard deduction if she files her own return but I claim her as my dependent?
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Samantha Howard
•She can still take the standard deduction, but it's limited for dependents. If she only has W-2 income, her standard deduction would be either $1,250 or her earned income plus $400, whichever is greater (but not more than the regular standard deduction amount). So with her income around $4,320 in wages, her standard deduction would be $4,720 ($4,320 + $400), which would cover most of her income. That's why coordination is important - if she files as not being a dependent, she'd get the full standard deduction (around $13,000 for 2024), but then you'd lose the benefit of claiming her which is probably worth more to you.
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Megan D'Acosta
Has anyone considered the Qualifying Relative vs Qualifying Child categories? If your girlfriend is a full-time student, she might qualify under different rules where the income limit doesn't apply!
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Sarah Ali
•That's only for Qualifying Child, not Qualifying Relative. A girlfriend can never be a Qualifying Child because she doesn't meet the relationship test - has to be your actual child, sibling, niece/nephew, etc. Non-relatives can only qualify under the Qualifying Relative test, which always has the income limit.
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Ryan Vasquez
Remember that when counting support, you include fair market rental value of housing! If she's living with you rent-free in a place that would normally cost $1,200/month, that's $14,400 of support you're providing right there. Makes it much easier to pass the "more than half support" test.
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