Would my mom adding me to her checking account affect my FAFSA as a parent?
This may be a silly question, but I'm genuinely confused about FAFSA reporting requirements. I'm a parent of a sophomore in college and my elderly mother (82 and in declining health) wants to add me to her checking account so I can help manage her finances if she becomes incapacitated. The account has around $43,000 in it. Would I need to report this as an asset on my child's FAFSA? I don't want to mess up her financial aid by suddenly appearing to have more assets than I actually do. Has anyone dealt with this situation before? I'm worried because we're right in the middle of the FAFSA application period for next year.
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Ally Tailer
You'll definitely need to report it. When you're added as a joint account holder, legally that money becomes partly yours even if it's "really" your mother's money. The FAFSA looks at all accounts where your name appears, regardless of who contributed the funds or whose money it technically is. The financial aid office just sees account balances with your name attached.
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Callum Savage
•That's what I was afraid of... So it would essentially look like I suddenly gained $43k in assets? That could really hurt my daughter's aid package. Is there any way around this?
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Aliyah Debovski
Actually, this is a bit more nuanced. You have options that might work better for your situation. Instead of becoming a joint account holder, you could be added as a "convenience signer" or get financial power of attorney. These options would give you the ability to help manage her finances without legally owning the assets, which means they wouldn't count on your FAFSA. I'd suggest talking to your mother's bank about setting up a convenience signer arrangement specifically.
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Miranda Singer
•This 100%!! My family went through the EXACT same thing with my grandma. We did the power of attorney route and it worked perfectly - I could pay all her bills but didn't have to claim anything on FAFSA for my kids.
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Cass Green
OMG THE FAFSA IS THE WORST WITH THIS STUFF!!!! They count EVERYTHING against you!!! My son lost $7,000 in grants because my name was on my dad's account and they counted it as MY money even though it WASN'T MINE AT ALL!!! The whole system is designed to SCREW families over. They don't care about your actual situation, just what looks good on paper. IT'S INFURIATING!!!!!
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Callum Savage
•That's terrible! Did you try to appeal or explain the situation to the financial aid office? Or was it just a done deal once they saw the account?
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Cass Green
•We tried for WEEKS to explain but they just kept quoting the "rules" at us. Said the money was legally accessible to me so it counted. Period. No exceptions. They don't care about REALITY, just their stupid formulas!!! 😡
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Finley Garrett
my mom added me to her account last year and i didnt report it. nothing happened lol. but maybe thats not the best advice.
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Ally Tailer
•This is extremely risky advice. If they discover unreported assets later, your student could lose all financial aid and potentially face penalties. The Department of Education does random verification checks and they can request bank statements that show all accounts with your name.
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Madison Tipne
Have you tried calling the Federal Student Aid Information Center directly to ask about your specific situation? They can give you the official guidance. I was having trouble getting through to them about a similar asset question (inheritance timing issue), but I found this service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) that helped me get through to a real person in about 10 minutes instead of waiting for hours. They have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/TbC8dZQWYNQ. The agent I spoke with gave me documentation I could use for our verification process.
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Callum Savage
•Thank you for the suggestion! I've been avoiding calling because of the horror stories about wait times, but getting an official answer would really help. I'll check out that service.
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Holly Lascelles
This happened with my parents and grandparents too! The solution we used was setting up a separate account where my mom was designated as the "representative payee" - it's like a special account setup where you're officially managing someone else's money but it's not yours. Ask the bank specifically about representative payee accounts or fiduciary accounts. Those don't count as your assets for FAFSA.
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Miranda Singer
•Thats what a friend of mine did! Though they called it something different at their credit union... i think "custodial account" or something? same idea tho
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Ally Tailer
If your mother needs help managing finances, another option is setting up a revocable living trust. The trust would own the assets, and you could be named as trustee with authority to manage them. Since the trust legally owns the assets (not you), they wouldn't be counted on the FAFSA. This requires some legal setup but provides good protection and clarity.
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Callum Savage
•That's really helpful. I hadn't considered a trust. I'm going to talk to my mom about these options - the power of attorney, convenience signer, or possibly a trust. Seems like there are several ways to avoid jeopardizing my daughter's financial aid while still being able to help my mother. I appreciate everyone's advice!
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Finley Garrett
just wondering but how much would $43k actually affect the aid anyway? is it worth all this trouble? my dads always telling me the fafsa formula doesnt count assets that much compared to income
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Aliyah Debovski
•Assets can significantly impact aid eligibility. For parent assets, after certain allowances, about 5.64% of the value counts against you. So $43,000 could increase your Expected Family Contribution (now called Student Aid Index) by about $2,425. That could definitely affect grant eligibility, especially if you're near a threshold. For students with high financial need, that difference could mean losing part of a Pell Grant or institutional aid.
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Madison Tipne
Update on my situation: I spoke with someone at the financial aid office at my daughter's college (after taking some of your advice), and they recommended the POA route instead of joint account holder. They said they see this issue frequently with parents helping their own parents. The financial aid advisor actually walked me through how they would view different arrangements during verification, which was incredibly helpful. Going to meet with Mom's bank next week!
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Holly Lascelles
•So glad you got good guidance! It's amazing how some financial aid officers can be super helpful while others just quote the rulebook. Sounds like you found one of the good ones!
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Ravi Gupta
I'm dealing with a similar situation right now! My grandmother is 79 and we're looking at options for me to help with her finances. After reading through all these responses, I'm definitely leaning toward the power of attorney route. It sounds like that's the safest way to avoid FAFSA complications while still being able to help when needed. Has anyone here actually gone through the POA process? I'm wondering how complicated it is to set up and whether banks are generally cooperative with this arrangement for day-to-day account management.
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Kelsey Hawkins
•I went through the POA process with my dad last year and it was actually pretty straightforward! We had a lawyer draw up the documents (cost about $300) but you can also find forms online if you want to do it yourself. Most banks are very familiar with this - we just brought the POA paperwork to his bank and they had me fill out a signature card. Now I can write checks, make deposits, pay bills, everything he needs help with. The key is making sure it's a "durable" power of attorney so it stays valid if they become incapacitated. Way less complicated than I expected and no FAFSA issues at all!
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Olivia Van-Cleve
Just wanted to add my experience here - I went through almost the exact same situation two years ago with my father-in-law. We ended up doing the durable power of attorney route and it's been perfect. The bank was super helpful once we brought in the POA documents, and I've been able to handle all his bills and banking without any FAFSA complications for my kids. One tip: make sure to ask the bank specifically about their POA requirements when you call ahead - some want the documents notarized in a certain way or need specific language included. Also, if your mom is still mentally sharp (which it sounds like she is), having her present when you set everything up makes the whole process smoother. The peace of mind knowing I can help him financially without messing up my kids' college aid has been worth every penny we spent on the lawyer!
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Statiia Aarssizan
•This is such helpful real-world advice! I'm curious about one thing - when you mention having your mom present makes the process smoother, did you find that some banks were hesitant to work with POA documents without the account holder there? I'm trying to plan ahead since my mom sometimes has good days and bad days, so I want to make sure we handle the bank setup on one of her clearer days.
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