FAFSA 2025-2026: Do stepparents count? Confused about which parents to include
I'm filling out the FAFSA for my nephew and we're completely stuck on the parent information section. His parents are divorced and both remarried. The FAFSA is asking for parent info, but we don't know if we need to include his mom + stepdad, his dad + stepmom, or somehow ALL FOUR of them?? He lives with his mom during the school year but spends summers with his dad. The form only seems to have space for two parents, and I'm worried putting the wrong ones will mess up his aid. Anyone dealt with this blended family situation before? The deadline is coming up fast and we're freaking out!
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Lucas Bey
This is actually straightforward (even though FAFSA doesn't explain it well). You only include the parent he lives with MOST of the time and that parent's spouse if they're remarried. So in your case, it's his mom and stepdad ONLY since he lives with them during the school year. The dad and stepmom don't get reported at all on the FAFSA, regardless of who provides more financial support.
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Charlotte Jones
•Are you 100% sure? His dad actually pays for more of his expenses even though he doesn't live there most of the time. Will this affect how much aid he gets?
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Harper Thompson
The previous commenter is correct. FAFSA goes by physical residence, not financial contribution. The official rule is that you report the parent your nephew lived with most during the past 12 months. If that's his mom, then you report his mom and stepdad's information. His dad's financial support is irrelevant for FAFSA purposes (though it might matter for other types of aid applications like the CSS Profile, which some private schools require).
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Caleb Stark
•this is why the system is so messed up!! my stepdad makes good $$ but doesnt pay a dime for my college. had to report him anyway and got WAY less aid. total bs
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Jade O'Malley
Just went through this exact situation with my daughter last month. You definitely only report the parent where your nephew lives most of the time + their spouse. So mom and stepdad in your case. The FAFSA will calculate your SAI (Student Aid Index) based on their financial information. One thing to watch out for - make sure the parent and stepparent have FSA IDs set up before you start. Both need to sign the FAFSA, and getting the IDs can take a day or two if they don't already have them.
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Charlotte Jones
•Thank you! I didn't even think about the FSA IDs for both of them. Does my nephew need one too, or just his mom and stepdad?
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Jade O'Malley
•Yes, your nephew needs his own FSA ID too! All three people (student, parent, stepparent) need separate FSA IDs. And make sure they all use different email addresses - that was a headache we ran into.
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Hunter Edmunds
The whole FAFSA system is RIGGED against kids with divorced parents!!! My stepdad makes six figures but doesn't contribute A PENNY to my education, yet I had to include him and got almost no financial aid. Meanwhile my friends with married parents who make more money got better packages. The system is BROKEN and nobody at Federal Student Aid cares!!!!!
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Lucas Bey
•While I understand your frustration, this is unfortunately how the federal formula works. The assumption is that a household's resources are available to the student. You might want to talk to your school's financial aid office about a professional judgment review if your stepparent truly provides no support.
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Ella Lewis
my cousin had this exact problem last year and she just put her mom's info only (didn't include stepdad) and nothing bad happened. might be worth considering...
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Harper Thompson
•This is extremely bad advice. Intentionally leaving off a legal parent/stepparent is considered FAFSA fraud and can result in having to repay all aid, fines, and potentially even criminal charges. The Department of Education does verification checks on a significant percentage of applications. Please don't risk your nephew's future by submitting false information.
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Andrew Pinnock
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Charlotte Jones
•Thanks for the tip! We've been trying to call for days with no luck. I'll check out that service because we really need to talk to someone directly about some other questions too.
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Caleb Stark
Just remember the new FAFSA is super glitchy so save your work like every 5 min!!!! My app crashed THREE TIMES when I was doing the parent section last week 😡
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Jade O'Malley
One other important thing - if your nephew's parents have 50/50 custody (or very close to it), he should use the parent who provides more financial support. And if the custody is truly equal AND financial support is equal, then you use the parent with the higher income (though that would likely result in less aid).
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Charlotte Jones
•Good to know. His mom has him about 9 months of the year, so it seems pretty clear we should use her and the stepdad's information. Thanks for all the help everyone!
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Lucas Bey
Just to add a final point - if your nephew's biological father is contributing significantly to his education costs, that should be reported in the additional information section of the FAFSA or in a separate letter to each college's financial aid office. While it won't change the federal calculation, individual colleges may take it into account when awarding their institutional aid.
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Mei-Ling Chen
As someone who just went through this process with my own stepkid, I can confirm what others have said - it's definitely just the parent your nephew lives with most (his mom) plus her current spouse (stepdad). The FAFSA doesn't care about the biological father's income or his new wife's income in this situation. One thing I'd add is to make sure you have all the tax documents ready for both the mom AND stepdad before you start - you'll need their W-2s, tax returns, and bank statements. The process goes much smoother when you have everything in front of you rather than trying to hunt down documents mid-application. Good luck!
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