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Congratulations on getting through and getting that clarity! That's a really solid Pell Grant amount. Just wanted to add that if you're looking for help with the remaining costs, definitely check if your daughter's school has any institutional need-based grants or scholarships she might still be eligible for. Also, some schools have payment plans that can help spread out the remaining balance over the semester instead of paying it all upfront. The financial aid office should be able to tell you about these options too. You're doing great advocating for your daughter!
Thank you! It's such a relief to finally understand what we're dealing with. I had no idea about payment plans - that could really help us manage the remaining costs. I'll ask about those and any additional institutional aid when I call back. This whole process has been so overwhelming as a first-time college parent, but everyone here has been incredibly helpful!
So glad to see this story had a happy ending! Your experience is exactly why I always tell parents to keep pushing for that detailed breakdown - schools really need to be more transparent about what they're including in their "aid" packages. That $7,395 Pell Grant is fantastic for your daughter's SAI! For anyone else reading this thread who might be in a similar situation, don't give up if the first financial aid person you talk to doesn't give you clear answers. Sometimes you need to ask to speak with a supervisor or counselor who can pull up the detailed federal aid information. The FAFSA automatically considers you for all federal aid programs you're eligible for, including Pell Grants, so there's never a separate application needed. Keep advocating for yourselves, parents!
Excellent decision, Diego! Starting debt-free is such a huge advantage in today's economy. One more tip since you mentioned Florida - if your son's school participates in the Florida Prepaid program or has any state-specific benefits, double-check that using 529 funds won't affect any future aid eligibility. Also, since he's got such great academic credentials (full scholarship!), keep an eye out for additional merit scholarships that might become available during his college years - sometimes departments offer smaller awards to high-performing students that can help with those "extras" like study abroad or internship expenses. Sounds like you've raised an amazing kid and made smart financial choices along the way!
This is such great advice, Oliver! I hadn't even thought about additional merit scholarships that might become available later. That's a really good point about checking Florida-specific programs too - I'll make sure we're not missing out on any state benefits by using the 529 funds. It's so helpful to hear from people who've navigated this successfully. Diego, you're making the right choice going debt-free - your son is going to have such a head start in life!
Just wanted to add another perspective as someone who works in college financial planning - you're absolutely making the right call using the 529 funds! One thing I always tell parents is to also consider setting aside a small emergency fund (maybe $1-2k) from the 529 for true emergencies during the school year. Things like medical expenses, emergency travel home, or unexpected academic costs can pop up. Since your son earned such an impressive scholarship, he's clearly responsible - having a small buffer can prevent any mid-semester financial stress. Also, don't forget that 529 funds can be used for graduate school too if he decides to continue his education later. You've done an amazing job planning ahead and your son is going to have such a great foundation to build on!
I'm new to this whole college financial aid process too, and reading through everyone's responses has been incredibly helpful! My daughter just got accepted to her top choice school and we're facing similar decisions about Parent PLUS loans. One question I haven't seen addressed yet - if we accept a partial amount now (say $10k out of the $15k we were approved for), and then later in the year realize we need that additional $5k, do we have to go through the entire application process again or can we just request the remaining amount from our original approval? I'm trying to figure out if it's safer to take more upfront or if we can easily adjust later. Also, for those who mentioned shopping around for private loans with better rates - any specific lenders you'd recommend looking into? The 7.54% rate on Parent PLUS seems pretty high compared to what I'm seeing advertised elsewhere, but I'm not sure if those advertised rates are realistic for most applicants. Thanks for creating such a supportive space for confused parents like us to figure this out! 🙏
Great question about accessing remaining funds from your original approval! From what I've learned reading through everyone's experiences here, it sounds like most schools will let you request the additional $5k from your original approval without going through the full application process again - you'd typically just need to submit a loan adjustment form. But as several people mentioned, each school handles this differently, so definitely check with your daughter's financial aid office about their specific policies. Regarding private lenders, I'm in the same boat trying to figure out better alternatives to that 7.54% Parent PLUS rate! A few people mentioned finding better rates, but I'd love to hear specific lender recommendations too. From what I've researched so far, it seems like your credit score plays a huge role in getting those advertised lower rates, so make sure to check your credit report first. Some of the names that keep coming up in my research are SoFi, Earnest, and College Ave, but I haven't applied anywhere yet. Anyone else have experience with specific lenders they'd recommend?
@Ava Williams I can help with the private lender question! We ended up going with SoFi for part of our son s'college costs and got a 5.2% fixed rate, which was much better than the 7.54% Parent PLUS rate. The application was pretty straightforward and they had good customer service when I had questions. We also looked at Earnest and Citizens Bank - both had competitive rates but SoFi s'terms worked best for our situation. Just make sure to apply to a few different lenders since rates can vary based on your credit profile. Most lenders will do a soft credit pull for rate quotes that won t'affect your credit score, so you can shop around safely. The key is having a good credit score we (were around 760 and) stable income. Also, unlike Parent PLUS loans, many private lenders offer options to transfer the loan to your child s'name later if their credit improves, which was appealing to us for long-term planning.
As someone who just navigated this exact situation with my daughter's financial aid package, I can confirm what everyone else is saying - Parent PLUS loan approval is NOT an obligation! You have complete flexibility to accept all, some, or none of the approved amount. Here's what I wish someone had told me when I was in your shoes: create a detailed month-by-month budget for the entire school year, including all those "hidden" costs like textbooks, lab fees, transportation, and emergency expenses. We initially thought we needed $15k but after really breaking everything down, we only accepted $11k of our approved $18k. One strategy that worked well for us was accepting about 80% of what we calculated we'd need, knowing we could request more from our remaining approved amount if necessary. Most schools make it pretty easy to increase your loan mid-year (up to your approved limit), but much harder to decrease it once accepted. Also, definitely call your daughter's financial aid office! They deal with confused parents every day and are usually very patient about explaining the process. Ask specifically about their disbursement schedule and policies for adjusting loan amounts - this varies significantly between schools. You're being smart by asking these questions now rather than just clicking "accept" on the full amount. Take a deep breath - you've got this! 💪
This is such comprehensive and practical advice! The 80% strategy sounds really smart - it gives you a buffer without over-borrowing. I love the idea of doing a month-by-month budget too, especially including those emergency expenses that you don't think about upfront. As a newcomer to this whole process, it's so reassuring to hear from parents who've successfully figured this out. The reminder to actually call the financial aid office is something I keep seeing but haven't done yet - I think I've been intimidating myself unnecessarily when they're probably used to helping nervous parents like me every day. Thank you for the encouragement and the detailed breakdown of your approach!
I'm in the EXACT same situation and honestly it's such a relief to know I'm not the only one going through this nightmare! My son applied to 7 schools and we've gotten radio silence from all of them on financial aid. I submitted our FAFSA in early January thinking we were ahead of the game, but now I'm wondering if I should have waited given all these technical issues everyone's talking about. The May 1st deadline is keeping me up at night - how can they expect families to commit to schools without knowing what aid we'll receive? I've started a spreadsheet tracking when I contact each school because at this point I feel like I need to become a full-time advocate just to get basic information. Thank you to everyone sharing their experiences here - it helps to know this is a systemic problem and not something we did wrong!
I'm so glad you made that spreadsheet - that's actually brilliant! I should probably do the same thing to keep track of all my communications. It's crazy that we have to become advocates just to get basic information that should be readily available. The fact that you submitted in January and are still waiting shows just how widespread this problem is. I keep telling myself that if schools are this behind on aid packages, they HAVE to extend those May 1st deadlines - there's no way they can expect families to make decisions without the financial information. Hang in there, and thanks for sharing your experience too!
I'm a college sophomore and went through this exact same stress last year, though not quite to this extent. The FAFSA delays this year are definitely unprecedented - last year we had our packages by mid-March from most schools. What helped us was creating a shared Google doc with all the schools, their financial aid office phone numbers, and tracking each contact attempt. Also, many schools have specific "FAFSA delay" pages on their websites now with updates, so definitely check those regularly. One thing that worked for my family was calling early in the morning (like 8 AM sharp) when phone lines opened - we had much better luck getting through then. The financial aid officers are genuinely trying their best in an impossible situation. Hang in there - the packages will come, and schools know they'll have to be flexible with deadlines this year!
Miguel Diaz
If you're completing the FAFSA for 2025-2026, you can start the application in December 2024. Remember that many schools have priority deadlines much earlier than the federal deadline, so aim to complete it by February 2025 to maximize aid opportunities. The system will guide you through creating a new application using your existing parent FSA ID.
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Ava Rodriguez
•Got it - thank you! One last question - will my son's application be affected at all by my daughter's previous FAFSA information? Or is each student considered completely separately?
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Paolo Longo
•Each year's FAFSA is separate, but family financial information affects all students in the family. The key factor that will change is going from two family members in college to just one, which typically increases your Student Aid Index (SAI), potentially reducing need-based aid. This happens because the federal formula assumes your family can concentrate more financial resources on one student instead of splitting them between two students.
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Isabella Costa
I just went through this exact same situation last year! The confusion is totally understandable. Here's what worked for me: Yes, you need a completely fresh FAFSA application for 2025-2026 - there's no way to "transfer" or update your daughter's info. Keep your parent FSA ID but make sure your son creates his own student FSA ID before you start. The hardest part for me was mentally preparing for the financial impact - with only one kid in college instead of two, our Expected Family Contribution (now called SAI) basically doubled, so we qualified for way less aid. Start the application as soon as it opens in December and don't wait - some schools have really early deadlines for their institutional aid. The 2023 tax info requirement threw me off too, but once you get started it's actually not too bad. Good luck!
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Chloe Green
•This is exactly what I needed to hear from someone who's been through it! The doubling of the Expected Family Contribution is really concerning - I guess I should start preparing for potentially much higher out-of-pocket costs. Did you find any strategies to help offset the reduced aid, like applying for more scholarships or anything? And thank you for the reminder about early deadlines - I definitely don't want to miss out on institutional aid opportunities!
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