Will my daughter receive the $5K excess FAFSA aid after tuition is paid? Need it for future dorm costs
My daughter just got her financial aid package from the university she committed to and I'm trying to understand how the excess funds work. She qualified for enough grants, scholarships, and other non-loan aid to cover her entire tuition plus about $5,000 extra. We're thrilled, but she'll have to commute from home for freshman year since the dorm costs ($17K) are way beyond what we can handle right now. My question is: what happens to that extra $5K that's not being used for tuition? Will they send us a refund check? If we can bank that money, we could put it toward sophomore year housing costs so she could have the dorm experience then. I don't want to count on money that might not actually come to us. The financial aid office is impossible to reach by phone and their online portal doesn't make this clear at all. Does anyone know if/when/how excess financial aid gets disbursed? This is our first rodeo with college financial aid.
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Maya Patel
Yes, she should receive the excess funds as a refund! The school will first apply all financial aid to her account to cover tuition and any other direct costs. Any amount over that is typically refunded to either the student or parent (depending on whose name is on the account). Most schools either direct deposit it or mail a check within 2-3 weeks after classes start and all aid has been applied. Just make sure you've set up the refund preference in the school's financial portal. There's usually a section for "refund preferences" or similar where you can choose direct deposit (fastest) or check.
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Isabella Brown
•Thank you! That's such a relief to hear. I couldn't find clear information about this anywhere. Do you know if we need to do anything special to make sure we get the refund? I'm worried about missing some form or deadline.
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Aiden Rodríguez
Is anyone gonna point out that scholarships/grants might have specific terms?? Some can only be used for tuition OR housing. If she's not using it for housing this year they might reduce the award!! You really need to read the fine print for each award before assuming you can just bank that money.
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Emma Garcia
•This is an important point. While federal aid like Pell Grants can typically be refunded for any educational expense (including off-campus housing, books, transportation), institutional scholarships often have specific stipulations. Some are tuition-specific and may be reduced if not needed for that purpose. OP should carefully review each funding source in the award letter and contact the financial aid office about each one to confirm which will be refunded and which might be reduced if not used for the intended purpose.
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Ava Kim
my daughter had this same situation last yr!! we got about 4k back after her tuition was paid. took almost a month after classes started tho and they never told us it was coming, just showed up in her bank account one day lol
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Isabella Brown
•That's really helpful to know. Did they do direct deposit automatically, or did you have to set something up first? I'm worried we might miss a step and lose out on the money.
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Ethan Anderson
I work in financial aid (not at your daughter's school obviously) and this is a common question. Generally speaking, yes, excess financial aid is refunded to the student. BUT - big caveat - each type of aid has different rules about whether it can be reduced if not using for intended purpose. Federal aid has the most flexibility (Pell, SEOG, federal loans). School-specific scholarships often have more restrictions (some are tuition-specific, some require on-campus housing, etc).
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Isabella Brown
•Thanks for the insider perspective! Our daughter has a combination of Pell Grant, state grant, and two university scholarships. I should probably check the terms of those university scholarships to see if they have any housing requirements. Do schools typically spell this out clearly in the award letter?
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Layla Mendes
I've been trying for WEEKS to get someone on the phone at my daughter's financial aid office with a similar question. It's absolutely maddening! Have you tried calling early in the morning? That's what someone advised me but I still can't get through.
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Lucas Notre-Dame
•I was in the same boat last month - couldn't get through to ANYONE at financial aid for weeks. I finally used a service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) that helped me skip the wait and got me connected to a live person at the financial aid office in about 3 minutes. You can see how it works in their video demo: https://youtu.be/TbC8dZQWYNQ It was a game changer for me because I had a time-sensitive question about my son's verification process. Might be worth trying if you're still struggling to reach someone.
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Ava Kim
ur supposed to use that money 4 educational expenses only, just fyi. they don't really track it once it's refunded but technically ur not supposed to just save it for later. it's for this years books/supplies/transportation etc.
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Emma Garcia
•This is partially correct. While financial aid is intended for educational expenses in the current academic year, the definition of "educational expenses" is quite broad. It includes not just tuition and books, but also transportation, living expenses, technology, and even certain healthcare costs that enable the student to attend school. Saving some of the funds for future educational expenses isn't prohibited, especially if you're planning to use it for housing costs next year. However, you're right that the primary purpose is to cover current academic year expenses, and some institutions and scholarship providers do have specific terms about how and when their funds can be used.
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Ethan Anderson
Another thing to consider: if your daughter is getting substantial merit scholarships from the university, check if they're renewable and what the GPA requirements are for renewal. Sometimes students lose scholarship eligibility in subsequent years if their GPA falls below requirements. So even if you can bank that $5K for next year, don't count on the same total aid package necessarily being available unless all the current scholarships are guaranteed for all 4 years.
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Isabella Brown
•That's a really important point I hadn't considered. I'll check her scholarship terms right away. She's a strong student, but college is definitely a transition and I wouldn't want to count on money that might not be there if her GPA dips below requirements. Thank you!
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Aria Park
This whole financial aid system is RIDICULOUS!! You shouldn't have to struggle this much just to understand how your own money works! The schools are raking in billions and can't even answer a simple phone call or make their policies clear. This is why so many families end up in debt - the system is DESIGNED to be confusing!
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Aiden Rodríguez
•Agreed!! I have 3 kids in college and each school handles refunds completely differently. One school automatically puts it on a special debit card (which has fees btw), another does direct deposit, and the third mails actual paper checks like it's 1995. And they all have different timelines and processes. It's a mess.
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Maya Patel
One last thing to consider - when you do get the refund, I recommend opening a separate savings account just for these education funds rather than mixing them with regular accounts. This helps in case there are ever questions about how the money was used, and helps your daughter budget those funds specifically for educational expenses.
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Isabella Brown
•That's excellent advice. I'll set up a dedicated account for her educational expenses. That will make it easier to track and ensure the money goes toward its intended purpose. Thank you again for all your help!
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Zainab Ibrahim
Just want to add one more consideration - timing can be crucial if you're planning to use that refund for sophomore year housing. Most schools require housing deposits and room selection to happen in the spring semester of freshman year (like February-April). So even though you'll get the refund, make sure you have a plan for covering the housing deposit upfront since the refund money might not be available yet when you need to secure her dorm spot for sophomore year. You might need to pay the deposit out of pocket and then reimburse yourself when the refund comes through.
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Grace Patel
•That's such a crucial point about timing that I wouldn't have thought of! I was so focused on whether we'd get the refund that I didn't consider when housing deposits are due. I'll need to look into the housing timeline now and maybe start setting aside some money for that deposit just in case. Do you know if most schools allow you to put deposits on payment plans, or is it typically a lump sum upfront?
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Alice Coleman
I went through this exact situation with my son two years ago! Yes, you should definitely receive that $5K as a refund, but here's what I wish someone had told me: the timing varies wildly between schools. Some process refunds within days of the semester starting, others take 4-6 weeks. My advice: call the bursar's office (not financial aid) - they handle the actual refund processing and are often easier to reach. Also, ask specifically about their refund timeline so you can plan accordingly. We ended up getting about $3,800 back after all was said and done, and it was a huge help for textbooks and other expenses we hadn't budgeted for. One thing that caught us off guard - they deducted some mandatory fees we didn't expect from the "excess" before issuing the refund, so don't be surprised if the final amount is slightly less than your calculation!
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Keisha Robinson
•This is incredibly helpful, thank you! I never would have thought to call the bursar's office instead of financial aid - that's a great tip. And knowing about those unexpected mandatory fees is really valuable so I don't get my hopes up for the full $5K. It sounds like even with some deductions, you still got a substantial refund that made a real difference. I'll definitely reach out to the bursar's office this week to get their specific timeline. Did you find they were more responsive than the financial aid office?
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LunarEclipse
As someone who just went through this process with my youngest daughter last semester, I can confirm you should receive that excess as a refund! A few practical tips from our experience: First, definitely set up direct deposit in the student portal ASAP - it's so much faster than waiting for a mailed check. Second, the refund usually happens about 10-14 days after the add/drop period ends, not right when classes start. One thing that really helped us was creating a simple spreadsheet tracking each funding source and its specific terms. We discovered one of her smaller scholarships ($2K) actually required on-campus housing to maintain eligibility, so we had to decide whether to forfeit that or find a way to cover dorm costs. Ultimately we kept her home and lost that particular scholarship, but the math still worked out better for us. The $5K you're banking on for sophomore year housing is smart planning, but definitely confirm each award's renewal requirements now while you have time to plan. Good luck!
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Isabella Silva
•This is such practical advice - thank you for sharing your real experience! The spreadsheet idea is brilliant and I'm definitely going to do that. It's really helpful to hear about the scholarship that required on-campus housing - that's exactly the kind of detail I need to watch out for. Can I ask how you found out about that requirement? Was it clearly stated in the award letter or did you have to dig into the fine print somewhere else? I want to make sure I'm not missing any similar conditions with my daughter's awards.
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Keisha Johnson
I'm new to all this financial aid stuff too and your post really resonates with me! My son will be starting college next year and I've been trying to wrap my head around how all these refunds and excess aid works. Reading through everyone's responses here has been incredibly educational - especially learning about the bursar's office vs financial aid office distinction, and the importance of checking individual scholarship terms. One question for those who have been through this - do schools typically send any kind of notification when they process the refund, or does the money just show up in your account without warning? I'm the type of person who likes to know what's coming when, so I don't want to be checking my bank account obsessively wondering if/when it will arrive! Also, has anyone had experience with what happens if your student's enrollment status changes (like dropping from full-time to part-time) after aid has been disbursed? I'm probably overthinking this, but I want to understand all the potential scenarios.
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QuantumQuest
•Welcome to the financial aid maze! I'm pretty new to this too and have found this community super helpful. From what I've learned here and my own research, most schools do send some kind of notification when they process refunds - usually an email saying something like "refund processed" with the amount and expected date. But the timing and communication style varies a lot between schools. Regarding enrollment changes - that's actually a really important question! If a student drops below full-time status, it can trigger what's called "Return to Title IV" calculations where the school has to give back some of the federal aid. This could mean the student suddenly owes money back to the school. I'd definitely ask about this policy when you talk to the financial aid office, especially the specific timing rules (like how late in the semester changes can happen before it affects aid). You're not overthinking it at all - understanding these scenarios upfront can save a lot of stress later!
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