Negative SAI (-1500) but no financial aid package yet - Should I pay housing deposit?
My daughter got into her dream school (the ONLY place she applied despite my pleading to have backups). We've already paid the $750 acceptance deposit, but now they're pushing for a $2200 housing deposit due in 2 weeks. Here's the problem - we still haven't received ANY financial aid package from them! Our FAFSA came back with a -1500 SAI, which I understand should qualify for good aid, but the school is completely silent. I'm terrified of paying this huge housing deposit only to find out we can't afford the school. The financial aid office just keeps saying "packages are being processed" when I call. Has anyone dealt with this? With a negative SAI, should I be confident enough to pay the housing deposit? Will we likely get enough aid? I'm so stressed about potentially wasting thousands if this doesn't work out.
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Jamal Anderson
With a -1500 SAI, your daughter should qualify for a full Pell Grant and likely significant institutional aid as well. However, even with an excellent SAI, schools vary dramatically in how generous they are with their aid packages. Before paying that housing deposit, I'd recommend: 1. Email the financial aid office again explaining your situation and specifically mention your negative SAI. Ask for an estimate of when your package will be finalized. 2. Check if the housing deposit is refundable if the financial aid package doesn't meet your needs. 3. Contact the admissions office, as they sometimes have more pull than you'd expect in getting financial aid to move faster. Don't feel pressured to pay that deposit until you have the full financial picture. A negative SAI is promising, but without seeing the actual package, you can't make an informed decision.
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QuantumQuest
•Thank you for this advice. I did ask about refundability and they said the housing deposit is only 50% refundable after May 1st, which is just 5 days after the deposit is due. I've emailed financial aid again specifically mentioning our SAI, but haven't heard back. I'll try the admissions office route too - that's a good idea.
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Mei Zhang
omg my son did the same thing last yr, only applied to UMich and we ended up scrambling for other options when the money didnt come thru. negative SAI doesnt guarantee theyll give u enough!! each school has their own formula and some will still leave u with 30k+ to pay even with good SAI. dont pay that housing money until u see actual $$$ on paper!!!
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QuantumQuest
•This is what I'm afraid of! Did your son end up finding another school? I'm kicking myself for not forcing her to apply to safety schools. The $750 acceptance deposit is already gone, I hate to lose another $2200.
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Mei Zhang
•yea he ended up at state school with scholarship instead. still bummed but we couldnt justify 45k/yr loans for undergrad. those deposit $ are just sunk costs, better than being trapped
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Liam McGuire
As someone who works in college financial aid, I can tell you that a negative SAI does typically result in a strong financial aid package, but there are several important considerations: 1. The specific institution matters - some schools meet 100% of demonstrated need, others meet 60-70%, and some even less. 2. How they meet that need varies wildly - some will use mostly grants, while others rely heavily on loans. 3. Even with a negative SAI, the total Cost of Attendance might result in a gap you need to cover. I would absolutely call the financial aid office again to explain your timeline conflict between the housing deposit and aid package. Ask specifically if they can expedite your award letter or provide an estimated package based on your SAI. Many institutions can provide a preliminary estimate to help with these decisions. Don't pay that housing deposit without understanding your full financial picture - it's a perfectly reasonable position to take.
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QuantumQuest
•Thank you for this insider perspective. The school is a private university with an 80% tuition discount rate (according to their website), but I have no idea what that actually means for us individually. I've called the financial aid office 4 times in the past two weeks and keep getting transferred to voicemail. It's beyond frustrating.
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Liam McGuire
•An 80% tuition discount rate is actually quite high, which is promising. That means the average student receives institutional aid covering 80% of tuition costs. With your negative SAI, you're likely to be above that average. The difficulty reaching someone is unfortunately common this time of year, but it's critical you keep trying. Ask specifically for a counselor or director if the front desk staff can't help.
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Amara Eze
i paid my sons housing deposit without seeing aid package and TOTALLY REGRETTED IT!!!!! we lost $1800 when we realized we couldnt afford the school. dont make my mistake please. their trying to lock you in. negative sai is good but every school has different aid packages!!
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Giovanni Ricci
•This is SO COMMON and it's literally by design. Colleges use these non-refundable deposits to pressure families into committing before they have all the financial information. It's absolutely predatory and should be illegal. They KNOW exactly what they're doing.
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Giovanni Ricci
The FAFSA/financial aid system is RIGGED against families. Colleges intentionally delay aid packages until AFTER deposits are due. It's not an accident! They want you committed financially before you realize their "generous aid package" is mostly loans that will cripple your daughter's future. Your negative SAI means nothing if the school doesn't meet full demonstrated need (and most don't). Call that financial aid office EVERY DAY until they give you answers. They're hoping you'll just give up and pay. DON'T DO IT. I've seen too many families lose thousands on deposits only to find out the school expects them to pay $30K+ per year even with great SAI numbers. The whole system is broken.
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QuantumQuest
•I've definitely wondered if the timing is intentional. It feels so manipulative to ask for thousands in non-refundable deposits before showing us what we'll actually pay. And I can't even get through to anyone on the phone!
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NeonNomad
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QuantumQuest
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Fatima Al-Hashemi
anyone else think it's crazy that we have to pay deposits BEFORE seeing aid packages???? like what other industry makes you commit to buying something before telling you the price 🤦♀️
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Amara Eze
•RIGHT!? its sooooo messed up. and then they act like *we're* being unreasonable for wanting to know costs before paying thousands!!
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Jamal Anderson
Just wanted to add - if you do end up having to pay the housing deposit to hold her spot, make sure to ask about appeal processes for the financial aid package when it arrives. With a negative SAI, you're in a strong position to appeal if the initial offer doesn't meet your needs. Also, check if the school has a specific financial aid deadline guarantee. Some schools promise to deliver aid packages by a certain date for students who complete their FAFSA by their priority deadline. If they've missed their own promised timeline, that gives you leverage.
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QuantumQuest
•I didn't know about appealing - that's helpful. We did submit everything by their priority deadline (November 15th), and their website says aid packages would be sent by April 1st. Today is April 15th and still nothing. I'll definitely mention that when I call again.
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Mei Zhang
wait ur talking about the $2200 housing deposit but have u figured out the total COA (cost of attendance)?? even with pell grants and institutional aid ur probly looking at at least 15-20k/yr out of pocket at minimum depending on the school. make sure ur looking at full picture!
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QuantumQuest
•The total COA listed on their website is approximately $72,000 per year 😬 We're hoping with our negative SAI, Pell Grant, state grant, and institutional aid that we'd get it down to something manageable with moderate loans. But without seeing an actual aid package, it's all just guesswork at this point.
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Liam McGuire
Update: I spoke with our financial aid office director about this exact situation this morning. Her advice was to have you call and specifically request a "preliminary aid estimate based on your SAI" before the housing deposit deadline. Explain your situation clearly - that you cannot commit to the housing deposit without understanding your aid package. With a negative SAI at a school with an 80% discount rate, you'll likely receive substantial aid, but the exact composition matters. Ask specifically: 1. What percentage of demonstrated need does the school typically meet? 2. What's the average grant-to-loan ratio for students with negative SAIs? 3. Are there additional university grants you might qualify for? If you still can't reach someone by phone, send an email with "URGENT: Housing Deposit Deadline and Financial Aid Package" in the subject line, and copy the admissions office and dean of students. This often gets faster results.
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QuantumQuest
•Thank you for these specific questions! I'll try calling again tomorrow with these exact points. The grant-to-loan ratio is especially important to us. I wish they were more transparent about this whole process.
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