FAFSA confusion - mom files taxes with dad but they aren't married - how to report?
I'm totally stuck on the FAFSA parent section right now. My mom is a stay-at-home mom with no income, and she files taxes jointly with my dad. The weird part is they aren't legally married, but they've filed taxes together for years. When I get to the parent financial information section, do I leave my mom's income parts blank? Or should I split their combined income somehow? I don't want to get flagged for verification because this looks suspicious. Has anyone dealt with this situation before? The application deadline is coming up fast and I'm panicking!
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Amara Nnamani
Wait, if they aren't married, how are they filing taxes together? I thought only married couples could file jointly. Are you sure they're filing correctly with the IRS?
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GalacticGuru
•I'm actually not 100% sure how they do it, but my dad handles all the taxes. Maybe they file separately and I just assumed it was together? I'll have to ask him, but he's working late tonight and I wanted to finish this part of the application asap.
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Giovanni Mancini
This is an important distinction for FAFSA purposes. If your parents live together but aren't married, BOTH need to provide their information on the FAFSA. The system requires both parents' information if they live together, regardless of their marital status or how they file taxes. But something doesn't add up - unmarried couples cannot file joint tax returns with the IRS. Each person must file their own return if they're not legally married (or qualifying as 'head of household' in some cases).
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GalacticGuru
•Thank you for explaining! I just texted my dad and you're right - they don't actually file jointly. My mom files her own return but reports zero income since she's a stay-at-home mom. So for FAFSA, I should include both parents but put zeros for my mom's income sections?
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Fatima Al-Suwaidi
I got confused by this too! For FAFSA, if your parents live together (even if not married), you have to report BOTH of their information. Put zeros for your mom if she has no income. The system might flag you for verification because no-income parents often get extra review, but that's normal.
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GalacticGuru
•That makes sense. I'm just worried because getting flagged for verification sounds stressful. Does anyone know how likely that is with a stay-at-home parent situation?
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Dylan Cooper
From my experience with FAFSA, you need to include both parents if they live together, regardless of marital status. Your mom should be listed with $0 income if that's accurate. Make sure you indicate her filing status correctly though - she should be filing her own return as 'single' or possibly 'head of household' if she qualifies. And yes, households with a zero-income parent are often selected for verification, but it's not a big deal if your information is accurate. You'll just need to provide documentation proving the reported income (or lack thereof).
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Sofia Morales
•THIS!!! My mom hasnt worked in years and we got flagged for verification EVERY YEAR. It was annoying but not the end of the world. Just have her W-2 forms (which would show $0) and tax return handy.
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StarSailor
omg the FAFSA system is so confusinggggg. why cant they just make it simple????
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Dmitry Ivanov
•Ugh for real. The whole dependent vs independent thing trips me up every time too. Why do they need to know so much about our parents anyway? 🙄
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Amara Nnamani
If you need to talk to someone at Federal Student Aid to verify how to handle this specific situation, try using Claimyr (claimyr.com). I wasted days trying to get through to FAFSA last month about a similar parent reporting issue, then found this service that got me through to an agent in under 20 minutes. They have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/TbC8dZQWYNQ - totally worth it because the agent walked me through exactly what to do.
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GalacticGuru
•That's really helpful, thank you! I might need to do that if I get stuck again. Their website is so confusing and the wait times when I called were insane.
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Ava Garcia
I went through this exact scenario with my partner's kid last year! Here's what we learned: 1. For FAFSA, unmarried parents who live together BOTH need to provide info 2. Your mom would report her income as $0 if she doesn't work 3. Your dad reports his income separately 4. Both should be listed as "unmarried and both legal parents living together" 5. They would have separate tax filing statuses (not joint) The FSA system has a specific category for this situation. Just make sure your dad isn't claiming your mom as a dependent on his taxes, which would be a different scenario.
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GalacticGuru
•Thank you so much for the detailed breakdown! This makes it way clearer. I'll follow these steps exactly. And I'll double-check with my dad about the dependent thing.
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Giovanni Mancini
One more important point: when you're entering the tax information, make sure you use the Data Retrieval Tool if possible. This pulls information directly from the IRS and reduces the chance of verification. For your mom with zero income, you'll likely need to enter that manually, but your dad should use the DRT if eligible.
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GalacticGuru
•Update: I finally got it all figured out! You were all right - my parents file separately, and I need to include both on the FAFSA. Mom's income is $0 and I entered that manually. Dad's info I pulled with the IRS Data Retrieval Tool. I spoke with my financial aid office and they said this is actually pretty common. Thanks everyone for your help!
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Dylan Baskin
Great to hear you got it sorted out! This is definitely one of those FAFSA situations that seems way more complicated than it actually is. Your experience will probably help other students who run into the same thing. The IRS Data Retrieval Tool is such a lifesaver when it works - saves so much time and reduces errors. Good luck with the rest of your application process!
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Tyler Murphy
•Totally agree! I'm new here but this whole thread was super helpful to read through. I'm dealing with a similar situation where my parents aren't married but live together, and I was getting so stressed about how to report everything correctly. It's reassuring to know that this is actually pretty common and the financial aid offices are used to seeing it. Thanks to everyone who shared their experiences!
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Giovanni Martello
This is such a helpful thread! I'm dealing with something similar but slightly different - my mom and stepdad have been together for 10+ years and live together but never officially got married. My stepdad has been supporting me financially though, so I'm wondering if I should include his information too even though he's not my biological parent? The FAFSA wording about "step-parents" is confusing when they're not legally married. Has anyone navigated this situation?
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Natasha Volkova
•That's a tricky situation! From what I understand, for FAFSA purposes, a stepparent only counts if they're legally married to your biological parent. Since your mom and stepdad aren't legally married, he wouldn't be considered a stepparent on the FAFSA even if he's been supporting you. You'd only report your biological mom's information (and your biological father's if he's in the picture). But this kind of situation might be worth clarifying with your school's financial aid office since every family situation is unique!
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