Based on all the information shared, here's a summary of your situation: 1. For the 2025-2026 FAFSA (using 2023 tax data), your fiancé's income is NOT considered since you're not married. 2. You only report your own income (even if below filing threshold) and should request a Verification of Non-filing Letter from the IRS. 3. Your daughter's biological father's income is not reported unless he lives in your household. 4. Be prepared to explain your financial situation during verification if selected. 5. Check if any schools require the CSS Profile, which may have different rules about non-parent contributors. 6. Consider using support resources like Claimyr if you need to speak directly with an FSA representative for personalized guidance. With the correct information and documentation, your daughter should be able to receive an accurate financial aid assessment based on your actual household situation.

I just wanted to add one more thing that might help - when you're gathering documentation, make sure you also have records of any untaxed income you might have received in 2023. This could include things like assistance for your mother's care, any cash support, or other benefits that didn't require tax filing. The FAFSA will ask about untaxed income separately from your tax filing status, so even though you didn't file taxes, you'll still need to report any income you received that year. This ensures your daughter's aid calculation is as accurate as possible and helps avoid issues during verification. Also, don't stress too much about the complexity of your situation - financial aid offices deal with non-traditional families all the time, and they're usually very helpful once you get connected with the right person. Good luck with everything!

One more thing to consider - when you say she qualifies for "all of the Pell Grant," the maximum Pell for 2025-2026 is expected to be around $7,395. Combined with the $20K merit scholarship, that's $27,395 in gift aid that doesn't need to be repaid. On top of that, she'll likely be offered subsidized loans (around $3,500 for freshmen), and potentially unsubsidized loans as well. If her SAI is low enough, the school may also offer institutional grants to cover more of the gap. After the financial aid package arrives, if there's still a significant gap, you can always appeal the financial aid offer, especially if there are any special circumstances not reflected in the FAFSA.

As someone who went through this exact situation last year, I can confirm that merit and need-based aid can definitely stack, but the devil is in the details! My daughter received a $15K merit scholarship and still kept her full Pell Grant plus subsidized loans. However, her institutional need-based grant from the school was reduced by about $8K. The key questions to ask the financial aid office are: 1. "What is your scholarship displacement policy?" 2. "Will outside/merit scholarships reduce institutional grants dollar-for-dollar?" 3. "Are there any aid sources that are protected from displacement?" Also, since you mentioned Illinois and the $60K total cost - definitely apply for the MAP grant ASAP if she hasn't already! The funding runs out quickly each year, but it can be worth several thousand for Pell-eligible students. One last tip: if the final aid package still leaves a big gap, don't be afraid to negotiate. We successfully appealed our daughter's package by explaining some financial circumstances that weren't fully captured in the FAFSA, and they increased her institutional grant by $3K per year.

just curious - what kind of scholarship is this? might apply for my kid next year lol

Congratulations on your daughter's scholarship! As someone new to this process, I'm finding all this information incredibly helpful. I had no idea that schools had such different policies for handling outside scholarships. My son is a junior and we're just starting to think about college financing - should I be researching these displacement policies now for the schools on his list? Also, is there a good resource for finding local community foundation scholarships like the one your daughter received? It sounds like those might be less competitive than the big national ones everyone applies for.

btw once u find ur SAI make sure to save the PDF somewhere!! i had to go back and look for mine again later and the site was down for maintenance 🙄

Pro tip from someone who went through this nightmare last month - if you're on mobile, the "View Student Aid Index Report" link is practically invisible! I had to zoom in like 200% to even see it. The desktop version is much easier to navigate. Also, if your FAFSA shows as "processed" but you still can't find the SAI link, try logging out and back in - sometimes there's a delay between processing completion and the link becoming available. Took about 24 hours in my case.

My advice? Start calling FSA at 7:58am ET EXACTLY when they open. That's the only time I've ever gotten through without waiting for hours. And have ALL your documents ready - social, ID, tax returns, everything. They will verify every detail before they'll help with account issues. The whole system is ridiculous for divorced parents!!

I'm dealing with a similar situation right now! My ex and I divorced 2 years ago and I just discovered he somehow used my email when he set up his FSA ID back in 2019. I had no idea until I tried to help my son with his FAFSA this year. One thing I learned from FSA customer service (after finally getting through) is that you should also check if your ex has your SSN linked to his account somehow. Apparently some people accidentally enter their spouse's info when creating accounts and it can cause even more complications down the line. They had to verify I wasn't him by asking detailed questions about my employment history and previous addresses. Also, make sure your daughter knows this might delay her application a bit - but colleges are usually understanding about technical issues with FAFSA, especially divorce-related ones. Most have seen this before and will work with you on deadlines if you can show you're actively trying to resolve it.